Work vs. family time #OpenBook Blog Hop

April 2, 2018 – Work time vs. family time. How do you manage it all?

Being a writer is at it’s heart, a lonely task. Hours sitting in front of a computer or a notepad, trying to get the right words to spill from your brain into some resemblance of a story. But not all of us live solitary lives. There’s work and families to consider in how we schedule our time.

So how do I do it?

Easy answer—not very well, I’m afraid.

I admit to spending far too much time in my writing space, away from my family. Especially when I’m at a turning point in the story and the words are flowing freely. While my husband watches television, I work on whatever my latest story is. I’ve tried to do it in the same room he’s in, but it’s too easy to get distracted by whatever is flashing across the TV screen.

So, I try to limit myself to writing when everyone else has gone to bed. Get in a lot of writing in a short period of time. If I mull where the story is going when I’m doing other things, hopefully I’ll be able to capture the thoughts later. Of course, that partially depends on my characters not changing things up on me when I have the opportunity to put words on paper.

Because there is another factor that plays into this time management mess. I have a full-time job, and work really hard not do any writing while I’m supposed to be doing something else. Granted, I’ve been known to sneak in a few minutes of writing here and there, but I can’t let it interfere with doing what I get paid for. But occasionally work bleeds over into my time, so I don’t feel too guilty about taking back a few spare moments.

And I haven’t even mentioned the time spent on social media trying to promote my books. Which I do badly, I’m afraid.

Speaking of promotion!

Now let’s head over to the other authors and see how they juggle it all.

April 2, 2018 – Work time vs. family time. How do you manage it all?

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Juggling Tasks #OpenBook Blog Hop

March 26, 2018 – Being the CEO. How do you handle all the tasks you must juggle in this writing/publishing world? Do you hire out certain tasks? Why or why not?

I thought I got into this writing gig with open eyes. I’d done my research, figured out what I needed to do, made a plan for releasing my first book. How wrong I was.

As an Indie, it’s not just writing the book. There’s a whole host of other things that have to be done.
Editing is the first thing that comes to mind.

No matter how much you edit and correct your story, chances of you catching every error are slim to none. Even a second set of eyes is unlikely to spot every mistake. There are numerous grammar checking sites and programs on the internet, but even they aren’t perfect. How many people does it take to catch every slip of an extra space or misspelled word? No one knows. It hasn’t happened yet.

Then comes putting your words into the proper format for publication. It’s a time-consuming process of you don’t have the correct program. (and different companies may have slightly different requirements.) I decided that I didn’t want to devote the time and energy to figuring the process out. So I pay a formatter to prepare the book for me.

But a book is more than words. There’s the cover. Now, I’m aware that there are some talented folks out there who not only write books, they design their own covers. Not me. I don’t have the skill. Luckily, I know someone who is a graphics artist and she actually likes making my covers. (Here’s to you, K.M. Guth!) Have you seen my covers? Isn’t she great?

Once all those pieces are in place comes the task of getting your book up on various book-selling sites. You can do that through a company like Smashwords or Draft2Digital, you can pay someone else to do it, or you can do it yourself. I’ve gone with the do-it-myself route. (mostly) It takes a bit of time, but once you’ve figured out each retailer’s system it gets easier. The one exception if for Apple- I don’t own the hardware and software that will allow me to load to their site. So I go through Draft2Digital. ( It also gives me access to some overseas distribution) By doing it myself, I have more control over the pricing of my books and can change the cost on a whim.

But the work doesn’t end once the books are available at the various retailers. Somehow you have to get people to buy them! There are lots of social media websites to help with that (many I didn’t know about when I started this adventure.) That could be a whole post of its own, but I’m sure you’ve heard of Facebook , Twitter, etc.

I’ve tried several different methods to get the word out about my new books in the past, without much luck. I’m going to try something new when I release my next book in a few weeks. We’ll see how it works out.

Oh, my next book, you ask? Tell you more about it? Sure!

Wolves’ Gambit is the third book in the Free Wolves series, but can be read as a standalone. It’s the story of Lori Grenville, who we met in Wolves’ Pawn. (Bet you don’t remember her!)  I’ve slated the book for release on April 15th. Here’s the blurb, in case you’re interested. 🙂

Wolf-shifter Lori Grenville was rescued from near-slavery and a brutal pack leader by the Free Wolves. To pay back the favor, she’s dedicated her life to helping others in the same situation, leading shifters to safety and a new start, risking her life in the process. She’s faced down alphas and has no qualms in undermining pack structure.

Now she’s challenged with the task of restoring an alpha to his rightful place. If she gets it right, she can stop a war from ripping apart two packs and spreading across an entire state. If she fails, she’ll be among the first to die.

There’s still the option of walking away and letting the Jaeger and Destin packs destroy each other. That means she’ll fail in her original mission of rescuing the daughter of the Jaeger alpha before the girl is forced into marriage for political gain.

Lori hasn’t failed in a mission yet. This one may be the exception.

And I have another great cover, thanks to K.M. You want to see it? Okay, here ya’ go!

Now let’s head over and find out how everyone feels about the topic.

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Jennifer Lowrery and Worth The Risk

I’m pleased to welcome Jennifer Lowery and her new release Worth The Risk. And now, here’s Jennifer.

Hello peeps, Jennifer here to rock your military romance socks off! My new release, Worth the Risk, Book #3 in my Wolff Securities Series, is available now for pre-order—Woot! It will release March 20th so get your orders in now! If you haven’t read the first two books, no worries, these are standalone as well as part of a series—although I do hope you’ll read them all 😉 The Wolff brothers are a tight-lipped bunch but I managed to get them talking long enough to write their books, lol, so the more support the better!

A friend and author asked me why the hero of this book had me falling in love with him. A great question and one I am happy to answer here for all of you. Kell Wolff, the hero of Worth the Risk, was one of the most forth-coming Wolff brothers, even if he didn’t say much, lol. I knew from day one he was running—literally—from his past and the woman who tore his heart out. He was a fun mix of thrill-seeker and loyal, the one you wanted watching your six. He had kind of a warped sense of humor his brothers don’t care for, but Kell gets a kick out of needling them. He was kind of dark, but not in a tall, dark and brooding way. More, haunted. And I’m a sucker for the strong, silent types. He did manage to surprise me at the end of the book—sorry, no spoilers here—and I was so touched I fell for him all over again. I enjoyed watching Kell come to life and I hope you do, too!

If you’d like to read Kell’s story, click on this link: Amazon
If you would like to read the first two books, Maximum Risk and Not Without Risk please go to my website HERE for purchase links.
P.S. The first book in the series, Maximum Risk, is on sale for .99 cents for a limited time!


Blurb:

He’s a risk-taker…
Private security specialist, Kell Wolff, lives life on the edge. Falling for CIA agent, Shea Morrissey, fit his risk-taking lifestyle. Until she walked away without as much as a goodbye. Now, four years later she’s in trouble and needs his help, but the thought of seeing her again risks having his heart ripped out of his chest a second time. But Shea’s agenda coincides with his own so he can’t say no.
She’s the biggest risk of all…
Shea Morrissey has gone off the grid in pursuit of the man responsible for the death of her sister. Determined to take Ramil Diakameli down, she’s given up everything. Including the man she loved. Now, she’s in danger, her mission in jeopardy and the only person she can trust to help her is the man she walked away from. In order to survive, she and Kell must fight side by side and put their past to rest so they can work together.

Jennifer Lowery

How Much is Too Much? #OpenBook Blog Hop

How much is too much? We know repetition is important to remember things. That’s why we see the same commercials over and over again. But, how much is too much? What’s your favorite ad and what’s your least favorite ad. (Can be television, radio, billboards.)

Those of you who have read my blog with any regularity know that I don’t watch TV.  The number of ads and the way they repeat them over and over and over is one of the reasons I stopped. Seeing the same bad commercial three times within an hour was enough to drive me away from watching a show. And eventually, TV in general.

That doesn’t mean I don’t catch an occasional ad or two when I wander into the room when my hubby is watching the news. Or just flipping through channels. As a result, I have a few ads that are among my least favorite.

The first ones that come to mind are the Progressive insurance ads. The first one or two featuring Flo were okay, but she is just as annoying as all get out. (I’m trying to keep my words clean.) And she gets worse with every new commercial. I have to wonder how effective the character is in selling insurance. I think she’s outlived her usefulness. The Geico ads are at least slightly better. The gecko isn’t near as annoying. (Although I liked the older version of him better.)

The whole category of ads for the medicine of the week ranks a close second on my least favorite list. Have you ever really listened to the list of potential side effects? They are often worse than the condition they are fixing! What really gets me is the commercials say “And don’t take medicine X if you are allergic to medicine X.” Well, no duh! I’m not a doctor and I don’t play one on TV, but I could tell you that. And we wonder why our prescriptions cost so much, but that’s a topic for another blog post.

I can’t tell you my favorite ad. I don’t have one. Heck, usually I make a point of watching the best of the Super Bowl ads, and I didn’t do that  this year. I’m going to date myself and tell you about one I remember from way back. Anyone remember the Budweiser frogs? (I’m not endorsing the company here. Shh, don’t tell anyone, but I don’t like their beer.) But that string of commercials was tongue-in-cheek enough to make them interesting. For those of you who are too young to remember, here’s the first one. Simple but effective.

Now let’s hop on over (see what I did there?) to the other author’s pages and see what they have to say.

March 19, 2018 – How much is too much? We know repetition is important to remember things. That’s why we see the same commercials over and over again. But, how much is too much? What’s your favorite ad and what’s your least favorite ad. (Can be television, radio, billboards.)

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“Perfection” in Advertising #OpenBook Blog Hop

Surprise! We do not live in a perfect world. This world is filled with the less-than-wonderful or totally broken. Things that don’t fit together well and opportunities that don’t work out the way we planned. Screws fall out all the time.

But advertisers would like you to believe that if you use their product, birds will sing, the sun will shine brightly and all the world will be a glorious place. The pillows on your bed will all be fluffed just right and your mother-in-law won’t see a speck of dust when she visits.The shirt you pull out of your closet won’t have a solitary wrinkle and will still smell summer-fresh.

But it doesn’t work that way. And does anyone believe those commercials any more? They are full of smoke and mirrors and parlor tricks. Follow the yellow brick road and don’t look at the man behind the curtain. So why do advertisers keep shoving them down our throats?

The standards for beauty have changed throughout the years. In ancient Greece, unibrows were desired. In the 1800’s in France, a slight double-chin was a mark of beauty. In the 1960’s, the “look” was unisex and skinny, with Twiggy being the standard. No curves allowed.

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I’ll be the first to admit I’m an advertiser’s nightmare. I can’t remember the last time I bought something based on an ad. But I know that young people are more susceptible to the images that surround them. I’m that crazy lady that will tell young teens that they don’t need to go on a diet when I  overhear them talking about it in the grocery store. Or that the jeans they wear don’t need to cost some extravagant amount of money to look nice.

Besides, I’m not perfect. Not by a long shot. And you know what? I think if I saw someone “real” in a commercial, I might actually stop and watch it. Someone who’s hair didn’t fall neatly back into place after the wind caught it. Someone who’s bra strap slipped off their shoulder when they weren’t paying attention. Or they accidentally wore mismatched socks.

Because I don’t want to know what the clothes will look like on a perfect body, I want to know what they will look like on me, with all my bulges. I don’t care what your food looks like under camera, I want to know how it actually tastes.

The world’s an imperfect place and we should celebrate all those loose screws.

Let’s check in with how the other authors feel.

March 12, 2018 – In years gone by, clothing stores, makeup manufacturers and the like have only used models with those perfect bodies and skin to show us their products. How do you feel about this? Would you like to see “real” people in ads?

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Writing Productively #OpenBook Blog Hop

Between work, family, and writing, sometimes the space in my head gets really crowded. It can be hard to stay focused on any one project. Especially right now, as I’m in between two stories. I’m working with beta readers and editing Wolves’ Gambit, and I’ve started the next book in the Oak Grove Mystery series. (No title yet. I’m not even done with the first chapter and Harmony, the main character, has already let me know the story isn’t going to be what I planned.)

So I’m having a hard time focusing. But there are a few things I do to help fix that.

Staying up later at night and writing after everyone else has gone to bed. helps After I’ve done my social media check-ins I can concentrate on my words.

I’m one of those people who works better with music in my ears. Not so much that it helps me concentrate, but it works to shut out other distractions and keeps me focused. I may not actively listen to the words, especially if the songs are old favorites, but the general flow of the music is more important. Tonight’s choice is Carly Simon.

I also have a slide show of my favorite mountain photos as my desktop background. So when I pull myself away from whatever document I’m working on, I have something beautiful to stare at, even in the middle of the night.

One distraction I haven’t eliminated is the mess on my desk. I use it for everything. Writing, bill paying, internet surfing, even occasionally work. And it’s a disaster area. I really need to take a couple of hours and find places to put all the “stuff.” Organization isn’t exactly my strong point! (And no, I won’t show you a picture of it. At least it isn’t as bad as the drawing below!)

Well, while I contemplate what stack of papers I can eliminate, I might as well head over to find out how the other authors organize their writing. If you have any ideas to help me out, please leave them in the comments.

March 5, 2018 – It’s been a while since we shared anything about our writing spaces and processes. What’s one or two things you must have in order to sit down and write productively?

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Author-Reader Events #OpenBook Blog Hop

I had no idea what to expect when I signed up with my first in-person sales event. It was the ComicCon of 2016, the first one to be held in Cheyenne, and no one knew what to expect. Luckily, my cover artist is an experienced con-goer, and she gave me lots of tips. (Waves. Hi, K.M.!)


And I’ll admit I overdid it. A banner, business cards, and postcards, as well as a game with prizes. Everyone was a winner. (At least they got a piece of candy!) Did it help me sell books? Hard to say. I broke even on the booth, and had publicity materials for the next couple of years.

But I did sell books. In my mind, enough to make me feel successful. Enough to make me decide to to more book sales.

How did I do it? I used the game to get people to come to my table. If the kids came and played, the parents tagged along and that gave me the opportunity to talk to them. Some of them picked up my books and took a look at them. A few of those bought one or more of the books. But I think the biggest selling factor was the smile I had plastered on my face, and the fact that I wasn’t afraid to talk to the strangers wandering the sales floor.

What would I have done different? I didn’t ask folks to sign up for my newsletter (non-existent at that time!) Now, I take along a notebook and ask if they wouldn’t mind getting my occasional newsletter.

Now, there aren’t many (or none at all!) literary conferences locally,  so I looked other places for opportunities A smaller con in a nearby town. A Christmas craft sale. A steampunk-themed fund raiser. A book signing at a local bookstore.

You’ll notice that none of those is an author-reader event in it’s purest form. I haven’t done one of those-yet. I’ve signed up to participate in Wild Deadwood Reads in June.

There’s a part of me that wonders if I know what I’ve gotten myself into. It’s not like I have a huge fan base that will rush to Deadwood to meet me in person. I have nightmares about sitting all alone at my table, watching authors sell book after book while I sell nothing.

I’m prepping myself to believe that the event is really about getting to know other authors and exchanging ideas and having a lot of fun doing it. But I’ll pack up my books, my banners, my business card and postcards, and plaster on my best smile, because deep in my heart, I know I’m going to try to meet new readers.

By the way, I’ll have a new book to introduce! Wolves’ Gambit should be available by then. So if you are in the Deadwood, SD area June 9th. come buy and say hi and pick up a signed copy.

Now,I’m off to see if I can find out if I’m missing anything from the other authors.

Feb. 26, 2018 – Do you attend Author/Reader Events? What do you offer on your tables and how do you interact with readers?

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Waterloo & Kryssie Fortune & a new release

Please welcome Kryssie Fortune and her new release, Wickedly Used, to my blog.

A
Tale of Two Soldiers ~Waterloo #history #amreading #Regency
#Romance
“I don’t know what effect these men will have upon the enemy, but, by God, they frighten me.” -The Duke of Wellington 

Wellington may have been talking about his army, but some of his officers and Allies at Waterloo were eccentric too. 
Lieutenant General Sir Thomas Picton.

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According to Wellington he was “a rough foul-mouthed devil as ever lived.”
Hardly a recommendation, although Wellington added that he found him capable. Picton’s cruelty when Governor of Trinidad saw him put on trial for torture. Although convicted, the conviction was later overturned. 
He fought in the Peninsula War then became a member of parliament. When war broke out again, he headed for Waterloo. He arrived, but his luggage didn’t. He rode into battle in a top hat. 
That must have made people look twice. It probably marked him as a target, too. 
Welsh folklore says that his top hat was shot off by a cannonball moments before his death. 
Sadly, he was the most senior officer killed in the conflict. Although, some historians think he was so hated by his own troops that one of them shot him.  


Gebhard Leberecht von Blücher

– {{PD-1923}} – published anywhere before 1923 and public domain in the US

“Forwards!” he was quoted as saying. “I hear you say it’s impossible, but it has to be done! I have given my promise to Wellington, and you surely don’t want me to break it? Push yourselves, my children, and we’ll have victory!”

Ever used the phrase, “I’ll be a monkey’s uncle”. My guess is it wouldn’t translate well into another language. The same applies to Blucher. Once, when he rallied his men he told them he was pregnant with a baby elephant. I really hope this was a saying, not insanity or schnapps talking.  
Injured at the start of the allied campaign, he lay beneath a dead horse. And was repeatedly ridden over by French cavalry. Only the fact that a great coat concealed his uniform stopped the French from killing him. 
Once he rejoined his troops, he bathed in a liniment of rhubarb and garlic, fortified himself with schnapps, and led his army to the battle. He was 74 at the time. By late afternoon, their intervention helped the Allies win a great victory. 

Why my interest in Waterloo?
Because Stormy Night Publishing have just released my dark Regency Romance, Wickedly Used. 

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Blurb
While
he is no stranger to pleasurable company from ladies of the night,
Major Richard Rothbury of the royal dragoons is not the kind of man
who will stand idly by as a woman is taken against her will, and when
he witnesses a disreputable cad attempting to force himself on a girl
in a back alley, he does not hesitate to intervene.

But
after the grateful young woman offers herself to Rothbury, he is
shocked to discover that not only was she no harlot, she was a maiden
and he has deflowered her. Furious at the girl’s scandalous
behavior and her carelessness with her own safety, Rothbury chastises
her soundly.

Though
she is due to inherit one of the largest fortunes in England, the
fact that she cannot touch the money until she marries or turns
thirty has kept Elizabeth completely at the mercy of her cruel uncle,
and for years she has been treated as if she were a servant. Her
encounter with Lord Rothbury is by far the most exciting thing that
has ever happened to her, but while he shows great concern for her
safety, he refuses to believe that she is anything more than a
serving girl.

Despite
having made it clear that he doesn’t consider a match between them
to be possible, when Elizabeth disobeys him Rothbury proves more than
ready to strip her bare, punish her harshly, and then enjoy her
beautiful body in the most shameful of ways. But can she dare to hope
that he will one day make her his wife, or is she destined to spend
her life being wickedly used?

Publisher’s
Note:
Wickedly
Used: A Dark Regency Romance
includes
spankings and sexual scenes. If such material offends you, please
don’t buy this book.

When Inspiration Strikes #OpenBook Blog Hop

I readily admit that I rely on inspiration when I’m writing my stories. It’s not 100%, sometimes I do have a basic premise in mind. But it’s those times that my characters like best to throw me for a loop.

Take this scene from The Baron’s Cufflinks:


     By
the time the library closed, I decided I needed a totally different
approach. I found no mention of Annabelle in the newspaper’s
archives, but the address of her office was prominently displayed on
her social media page. If she showed up for work in the morning, I’d
follow her around. I was willing to bet she went to the same place
for lunch every day, and maybe the same spot after work. I’d make a
follow-up trip to those same places after she left and talk to the
employees.
     Still
mapping out my plans for the morning—where would I park? Did I need
to buy a pair of binoculars first?—I pulled into the parking lot of
the bar I’d chosen for a drink. Just one, to get the lay of the land.
It looked like the kind of place where cheaters would go. A little on
the trashy side, but not taken over by meth-heads. A place where a
private eye might hang out to catch a straying spouse in the act.

     And
there, holding court at the bar, was the last person I expected to
see.

     Jake.

If you’ve read the Oak Grove Mysteries, you know Jake has had a major influence in Harmony’s (the main character) life, for bad or for good. He was featured prominently in the second book, Her Ladyship’s Ring. So most of you probably weren’t surprised when he showed up in this scene. 

But I was. See, I was trying to write Jake out of this book, and maybe out of Harmony’s life. I’d sent him off to Chicago at the beginning of the book. So what was  he doing in West Virginia? (I”m not going to answer that question. You’ll have to read the book to find out, if you don’t already know.)  Someone totally different was supposed to be at that bar. Until I got to the moment of Harmony seeing Jake, I thought it would be that other person. 

That scene changed the entire course of the book. Instead of being written out, Jake practically took over the story. I didn’t plan for it to happen. Yet I know the book turned out better for the change.

For those of you who have read the series, would you be upset if I wrote Jake out of the next book? (Or tried to, anyway.) Let me know in the comments.
Now let’s head over and find out about when inspiration struck the other authors.

Feb. 19, 2018 – Tell us a story about a time when a piece of inspiration hit you. We’ve all had them.

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Valentine’s Day #OpenBook Blog Hop

I freely admit it. I wasn’t one of the ‘popular’ kids in school. If there hadn’t been a rule about giving every kid in the class a Valentine card, I would have received very few. As it was, I didn’t get any of the really cool ones some of the other kids got. No, I got the generic, run of the mill cards that were left after the ‘best’ ones were picked for someone else. Heck, there were times I didn’t even any of the candy hearts.
So I’ve never been a big fan of Valentine’s Day.
But that’s not the biggest reason I’m still not a fan of the holiday. (Does it count as a holiday if you don’t get the day off work?) No, what bothers me is how contrived the whole thing is.

Evidence points to several different historical figures that could have been the basis for today’s celebration. Perhaps it was a combination of legends of all three. Why there is a Roman Catholic (and several other Christian denominations) saint for romance is beyond me. Does it really take divine intervention for a relationship to work? And how does that translate into a day when we are all encouraged to spend money just to show that we care about someone. Shouldn’t we be doing that every day we are with them? (Not the spend money part, the show we care part.)

After all, that’s part of what makes a relationship work—taking time to let the other person know that you care. Doing things that don’t cost anything, like listening when they talk.Watching a TV show with them. Giving them a hug before you leave for work. It doesn’t take a saint to tell you these things make an impression.

I don’t expect flowers or candy for Valentine’s Day. If I get a nice card I’ll be happy. An extra kiss or two will be great. A heartfelt “I love you” is always nice to hear.

And then there’s the important question—if the day is supposed to be about romance, how comes we are ‘training’ our kids to take part? Kids as young as three or four are making cards for their parents. Why? Just why? (Besides the obvious—get them to spend money.)

So I’m not going to wish you a Happy Valentine’s Day. I will thank you for taking the time to read my blog and (hopefully) my books. And may February 14th and every day be happy.

Now let’s  hop on over and see what the other authors have to say.

Feb. 12, 2018 – Valentine’s is this week. Chat about the most irritating thing about this event.

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