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October 8, 2018
What’s the most useless thing you know how to do?

I had to really think about this and decided it depends upon your definition of useless is. What you find useless may be what someone three states or three countries away finds to be a valuable tool. For example, someone who lives in a New York City apartment may think the fact that I can start a fire out in the woods in the middle of winter with one match is interesting but nothing they’ll ever use in their life. Then again, the hunter in the northern part of New York State would think that’s a skill everyone should know.

And my ability to convert a standard base 10 number (the numbers you use in every day of your life)  to base 2 or base 16? (Binary and hexadecimal) You’re probably shaking your head and saying ‘What the heck is she talking about?’ It’s a useless skill to most  people, but in the computer field it’s the basis for inter-computer communication. (You know, the Internet.)

How about my needlepoint and embroidery skills? I’ve posted a few of my projects here in previous posts, and while they are great decorations, they don’t really ‘do’ anything besides look pretty. On the other hand, I’ve sold some of my work so that makes it useful.

Wiggling my ears might be a good one but I never figured out how to do that. Same thing for curling my tongue. Or whistling, which I would rank as a useful skill.

I suppose being able to recite the alphabet backward isn’t useful as I don’t plan to ever be pulled over for drunk driving. Being able to stand on one foot and hold the heel of the other in my outstretched hand doesn’t do me any good anymore since I no longer am able to work the balance beam. (And, I admit, I can’t do that anymore. Old people problems.)

So what skill do I have that’s useless? I use to make bell-bottom jeans and jeans skirts out of two pairs of blue jeans. I don’t foresee that fashion trend coming back during my lifetime. (Too bad, I still love bell-bottoms!) So that’s my useless skill.

And yes, somewhere pictures exist of me wearing bell-bottoms and sorry, I’m not going to share them here!

What’s your useless skill? I’d love to hear about it in the comments. While you do that, I’m off to find out what the other authors are skilled at!

October 8, 2018

What’s the most useless thing you know how to do?

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October 8, 2018
What’s the most useless thing you know how to do?

I had to really think about this and decided it depends upon your definition of useless is. What you find useless may be what someone three states or three countries away finds to be a valuable tool. For example, someone who lives in a New York City apartment may think the fact that I can start a fire out in the woods in the middle of winter with one match is interesting but nothing they’ll ever use in their life. Then again, the hunter in the northern part of New York State would think that’s a skill everyone should know.

And my ability to convert a standard base 10 number (the numbers you use in every day of your life)  to base 2 or base 16? (Binary and hexadecimal) You’re probably shaking your head and saying ‘What the heck is she talking about?’ It’s a useless skill to most  people, but in the computer field it’s the basis for inter-computer communication. (You know, the Internet.)

How about my needlepoint and embroidery skills? I’ve posted a few of my projects here in previous posts, and while they are great decorations, they don’t really ‘do’ anything besides look pretty. On the other hand, I’ve sold some of my work so that makes it useful.

Wiggling my ears might be a good one but I never figured out how to do that. Same thing for curling my tongue. Or whistling, which I would rank as a useful skill.

I suppose being able to recite the alphabet backward isn’t useful as I don’t plan to ever be pulled over for drunk driving. Being able to stand on one foot and hold the heel of the other in my outstretched hand doesn’t do me any good anymore since I no longer am able to work the balance beam. (And, I admit, I can’t do that anymore. Old people problems.)

So what skill do I have that’s useless? I use to make bell-bottom jeans and jeans skirts out of two pairs of blue jeans. I don’t foresee that fashion trend coming back during my lifetime. (Too bad, I still love bell-bottoms!) So that’s my useless skill.

And yes, somewhere pictures exist of me wearing bell-bottoms and sorry, I’m not going to share them here!

What’s your useless skill? I’d love to hear about it in the comments. While you do that, I’m off to find out what the other authors are skilled at!

October 8, 2018

What’s the most useless thing you know how to do?

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3. Promise to visit/leave a comment on all participants’ blogs.

4. Tweet/or share each person’s blog post. Use #OpenBook when tweeting.

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October 1, 2018

What is the nicest thing someone has ever done for you or said to you? Why did this mean so much?

I’ve been extremely lucky in my life to have lots of good and supportive people around me. To pick out the nicest thing someone has done for me or said to me is impossible.

Do I call out all the folks who helped me get into my current career field? Because there’s a batch of them. There’s two of my college professors in particular who encouraged me as a non-traditional student in my studies and did everything they could to help me succeed. Or how about the guys in the field who took the time to mentor me as I transitioned from student to employee.

How about all the people who have encouraged me in my writing? From the days when I was finding my words in poetry to now, when my stories pile on top of each other in my head. I won’t name names because there are too many and I’ll miss someone. (Let alone the reviewers who are kind enough to leave nice words when they enjoy my books. They mean a lot.)

Sometimes kindness comes in small measures. The nurse who took extra time to adjust the temperature of the shower to the perfect level after I gave birth. The many kindness of the landlady who was more friend than landlady. The anonymous strangers who hold the door for me when my arms are full. The other authors who take a few seconds to click like or share on my FB posts.

There’s the kind folks who pulled us out of a ditch and wouldn’t accept any money as thanks. The co-workers who buy everyone’s morning coffee. So how do I pick one?

Simple. I won’t.

I appreciate them all, big and small. Big gestures are wonderful but sometimes it’s the little things that get you through a day.

What’s the nicest thing anyone has done for you? I’m on my way over to check out the other posts  while I wait for you to leave a comment!

October 1, 2018

What is the nicest thing someone has ever done for you or said to you? Why did this mean so much?

Rules:
1. Link your blog to this hop.
2. Notify your following that you are participating in this blog hop.
3. Promise to visit/leave a comment on all participants’ blogs.
4. Tweet/or share each person’s blog post. Use #OpenBook when tweeting.
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October 1, 2018

What is the nicest thing someone has ever done for you or said to you? Why did this mean so much?

I’ve been extremely lucky in my life to have lots of good and supportive people around me. To pick out the nicest thing someone has done for me or said to me is impossible.

Do I call out all the folks who helped me get into my current career field? Because there’s a batch of them. There’s two of my college professors in particular who encouraged me as a non-traditional student in my studies and did everything they could to help me succeed. Or how about the guys in the field who took the time to mentor me as I transitioned from student to employee.

How about all the people who have encouraged me in my writing? From the days when I was finding my words in poetry to now, when my stories pile on top of each other in my head. I won’t name names because there are too many and I’ll miss someone. (Let alone the reviewers who are kind enough to leave nice words when they enjoy my books. They mean a lot.)

Sometimes kindness comes in small measures. The nurse who took extra time to adjust the temperature of the shower to the perfect level after I gave birth. The many kindness of the landlady who was more friend than landlady. The anonymous strangers who hold the door for me when my arms are full. The other authors who take a few seconds to click like or share on my FB posts.

There’s the kind folks who pulled us out of a ditch and wouldn’t accept any money as thanks. The co-workers who buy everyone’s morning coffee. So how do I pick one?

Simple. I won’t.

I appreciate them all, big and small. Big gestures are wonderful but sometimes it’s the little things that get you through a day.

What’s the nicest thing anyone has done for you? I’m on my way over to check out the other posts  while I wait for you to leave a comment!

October 1, 2018

What is the nicest thing someone has ever done for you or said to you? Why did this mean so much?

Rules:
1. Link your blog to this hop.
2. Notify your following that you are participating in this blog hop.
3. Promise to visit/leave a comment on all participants’ blogs.
4. Tweet/or share each person’s blog post. Use #OpenBook when tweeting.
5. Put a banner on your blog that you are participating.

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September 24, 2018

What tools do you use to organize your writing life? Keep track of deadlines, blog appearances, guests appearing on your blog, etc.? What have you tried that didn’t work for you but might work for someone else?

If you’ve come here hoping I have the magic button to organize your blog visits, Facebook posts, and personal appearances, don’t hold your breath. I struggle with it too. Which amazes me, because I know how to organize. I once set up a three state,  twelve city business trip over the space of four days. That included flights and rental cars and hotels.  And accomplished it successfully. But keep track of a blog tour for a new release?

Now, I don’t do as many personal appearances as I would like, so they aren’t a problem. I welcome the opportunity to get out and meet people, even if I don’t convert them into new readers. And I’ve gotten good about keeping a stock of my books on hand so that I don’t go into a last-minute panic needing to order more.

But blog appearances are my downfall, especially multi-author ones that are several months in the future. I’ve tried a variety of methods to track due dates for both appearance on other blogs and people appearing here, but I can’t get it right. In fact, the last exchange I took part in, I tracked with a series of post-it notes stuck to my desktop. It worked, but it wasn’t very efficient.

I tried a spreadsheet another author designed, and it just didn’t ‘feel’ right. So, I tried designing one of my own. And it was better, but I found myself ignoring it. It wasn’t ‘in my face’, annoying me, so I didn’t have to look at it.

I tried a pocket calendar that I could carry around in my purse. The problem was, my purse never makes it to my writing desk. I keep it on a different floor of the house. So the calendar didn’t do me any good.

And I tried the calendar tied to my google account. I’d get the alerts reminding me of appointments when I was at work, not when I was at home. By the time I got home, I’d forget I had a task. And sometimes I didn’t get the alerts at all, or I’d set them wrong. Not helpful.

Why not try a wall calendar, you ask. Good question. The wall behind my desk is windows on the upper half. Covered my blinds. Can’t hang a calendar there!  And I don’t like desk calendars. I have this nice glass desk, and I hate cluttering it up. I like the feeling the clean open desk gives me. A desk calendar would make it feel too much like work.

So, I’m looking to my fellow authors and anyone who reads this blog. What am I missing? What haven’t I tried? If you’ve got a magic button, please tell us about it! Or if you are as frustrated as I am, you can tell us about that, too.

Now I’m headed over to read everyone else’s entry this week, in hopes of learning their secrets.

September 24, 2018

What tools do you use to organize your writing life? Keep track of deadlines, blog appearances, guests appearing on your blog, etc.? What have you tried that didn’t work for you but might work for someone else?

Rules:
1. Link your blog to this hop.
2. Notify your following that you are participating in this blog hop.
3. Promise to visit/leave a comment on all participants’ blogs.
4. Tweet/or share each person’s blog post. Use #OpenBook when tweeting.
5. Put a banner on your blog that you are participating.

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September 24, 2018

What tools do you use to organize your writing life? Keep track of deadlines, blog appearances, guests appearing on your blog, etc.? What have you tried that didn’t work for you but might work for someone else?

If you’ve come here hoping I have the magic button to organize your blog visits, Facebook posts, and personal appearances, don’t hold your breath. I struggle with it too. Which amazes me, because I know how to organize. I once set up a three state,  twelve city business trip over the space of four days. That included flights and rental cars and hotels.  And accomplished it successfully. But keep track of a blog tour for a new release?

Now, I don’t do as many personal appearances as I would like, so they aren’t a problem. I welcome the opportunity to get out and meet people, even if I don’t convert them into new readers. And I’ve gotten good about keeping a stock of my books on hand so that I don’t go into a last-minute panic needing to order more.

But blog appearances are my downfall, especially multi-author ones that are several months in the future. I’ve tried a variety of methods to track due dates for both appearance on other blogs and people appearing here, but I can’t get it right. In fact, the last exchange I took part in, I tracked with a series of post-it notes stuck to my desktop. It worked, but it wasn’t very efficient.

I tried a spreadsheet another author designed, and it just didn’t ‘feel’ right. So, I tried designing one of my own. And it was better, but I found myself ignoring it. It wasn’t ‘in my face’, annoying me, so I didn’t have to look at it.

I tried a pocket calendar that I could carry around in my purse. The problem was, my purse never makes it to my writing desk. I keep it on a different floor of the house. So the calendar didn’t do me any good.

And I tried the calendar tied to my google account. I’d get the alerts reminding me of appointments when I was at work, not when I was at home. By the time I got home, I’d forget I had a task. And sometimes I didn’t get the alerts at all, or I’d set them wrong. Not helpful.

Why not try a wall calendar, you ask. Good question. The wall behind my desk is windows on the upper half. Covered my blinds. Can’t hang a calendar there!  And I don’t like desk calendars. I have this nice glass desk, and I hate cluttering it up. I like the feeling the clean open desk gives me. A desk calendar would make it feel too much like work.

So, I’m looking to my fellow authors and anyone who reads this blog. What am I missing? What haven’t I tried? If you’ve got a magic button, please tell us about it! Or if you are as frustrated as I am, you can tell us about that, too.

Now I’m headed over to read everyone else’s entry this week, in hopes of learning their secrets.

September 24, 2018

What tools do you use to organize your writing life? Keep track of deadlines, blog appearances, guests appearing on your blog, etc.? What have you tried that didn’t work for you but might work for someone else?

Rules:
1. Link your blog to this hop.
2. Notify your following that you are participating in this blog hop.
3. Promise to visit/leave a comment on all participants’ blogs.
4. Tweet/or share each person’s blog post. Use #OpenBook when tweeting.
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How do you see yourself vs how you think other people see you?

Have you ever had one of those moments? When someone compliments you and you stumble through a thank you because you can’t figure why they think you’re so (fill in the blank with whatever relates to you.) You know what I’m talking about. Those moments that make you feel like a fraud.

It’s the impostor syndrome.

A lot of us have it. We work hard but never feel good enough. So when we get a compliment, it’s hard to accept whether it’s in person or on paper.

Moments like that hit me all the time at work, in my personal life, and in my writing persona. If I allowed half the praise to sink in, I’d feel like some sort of super woman.

Here’s an example: A few weeks ago, a fellow writer praised me for all the help I advice I gave her on the business side of being an indie.I was astonished, because like most indies, I’m putting together the information a piece at a time, learning as I go, but always willing to share what I’ve gathered from other sources. It’s not like I’m coming up with the information myself. The fact that this writer viewed me as some sort of expert floored me. I didn’t scream ‘I’m a fraud!’ out loud, but I sure as heck thought it.

At times I find it amusing. Like the time a representative from the software company we  use at work asked me to be part of a focus group for new features being developed. Called me an expert. I thanked him, but internally I was shaking my head. I know the right questions to ask and how to get the answers, but I don’t know if it makes me an expert.

So how do others view me?  The experts will tell you it doesn’t matter, it’s how you see yourself. That sounds all very well and good, but you know you care. I do. So, when little ‘ol insecure me gets a compliment, I try not to let it go to my head. Instead, I look at what I did to deserve that compliment, and try to do whatever it was even better.

By the way, that means I absolutely pay attention to the book reviews I get, both good and the not-so-good. The good ones I read with pride, the others I search for the one thing I can take from them that will help me improve my writing. So if you enjoy my stories, and haven’t done so already, please leave me a review!

Now, let’s head over and see what the other authors have to say.

September 17, 2018
How do you see yourself vs how you think other people see you?

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1. Link your blog to this hop.
2. Notify your following that you are participating in this blog hop.
3. Promise to visit/leave a comment on all participants’ blogs.
4. Tweet/or share each person’s blog post. Use #OpenBook when tweeting.
5. Put a banner on your blog that you are participating.

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How do you see yourself vs how you think other people see you?

Have you ever had one of those moments? When someone compliments you and you stumble through a thank you because you can’t figure why they think you’re so (fill in the blank with whatever relates to you.) You know what I’m talking about. Those moments that make you feel like a fraud.

It’s the impostor syndrome.

A lot of us have it. We work hard but never feel good enough. So when we get a compliment, it’s hard to accept whether it’s in person or on paper.

Moments like that hit me all the time at work, in my personal life, and in my writing persona. If I allowed half the praise to sink in, I’d feel like some sort of super woman.

Here’s an example: A few weeks ago, a fellow writer praised me for all the help I advice I gave her on the business side of being an indie.I was astonished, because like most indies, I’m putting together the information a piece at a time, learning as I go, but always willing to share what I’ve gathered from other sources. It’s not like I’m coming up with the information myself. The fact that this writer viewed me as some sort of expert floored me. I didn’t scream ‘I’m a fraud!’ out loud, but I sure as heck thought it.

At times I find it amusing. Like the time a representative from the software company we  use at work asked me to be part of a focus group for new features being developed. Called me an expert. I thanked him, but internally I was shaking my head. I know the right questions to ask and how to get the answers, but I don’t know if it makes me an expert.

So how do others view me?  The experts will tell you it doesn’t matter, it’s how you see yourself. That sounds all very well and good, but you know you care. I do. So, when little ‘ol insecure me gets a compliment, I try not to let it go to my head. Instead, I look at what I did to deserve that compliment, and try to do whatever it was even better.

By the way, that means I absolutely pay attention to the book reviews I get, both good and the not-so-good. The good ones I read with pride, the others I search for the one thing I can take from them that will help me improve my writing. So if you enjoy my stories, and haven’t done so already, please leave me a review!

Now, let’s head over and see what the other authors have to say.

September 17, 2018
How do you see yourself vs how you think other people see you?

Rules:
1. Link your blog to this hop.
2. Notify your following that you are participating in this blog hop.
3. Promise to visit/leave a comment on all participants’ blogs.
4. Tweet/or share each person’s blog post. Use #OpenBook when tweeting.
5. Put a banner on your blog that you are participating.

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